Ray doustdar dating
No, this wasn't a corporate morale booster, an alumni gathering or a charity event. Group-dating -- think of it as double-dating on steroids or as Facebook in the flesh -- is making a noticeable blip on the dating radar, as a younger generation turns away from such courtship rituals as the blind date.
Even Web sites like e-Harmony and have become passé.
Just as group-dating protected women of the Greatest Generation, many today see it as a shield.
Then came the Internet and, with it, sites like Team Dating.com, which has a concept similar to Ignighter's.
The groups often try activities a little more adventurous than dinner and a movie, perhaps because there is less one-on-one pressure to impress than on a traditional date.
Participants go bowling, take a hiking trip or try a night at the Philharmonic. "There's been a long history of group-dating in this country," says Beth Bailey, the author of "From Front Porch to Back Seat: Courtship in Twentieth Century America." "In the 1920s, people went to 'petting parties,' where young people made out in the presence of their peers.
Ray Doustdar, the co-founder of Team Dating, says his most positive feedback isn't from men giddy about doubling, tripling or quadrupling their odds on date night; it's from female participants who are relieved to have found a certain amount of security.
The guys, meanwhile, see the perks as social lubrication and a fleet of ready wingmen.