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I will not pin the blame on anyone here but, you being a lesbian should have known not to get involved with a man and expect not to have sex with him.

He doesn't notice because you are acting like your straight and loving and sexually attracted to him, you are leading him on and he is headed for a heart ache for sure. There really is no grey area here, you have to go one way or the other, and because you are a confirmed lesbian, there is only one way to go, you know what that is. Okay so big deal your a lesbian but does that mean you have to wear, and do what is expected.

But I'm not sexually attracted to him, and I know I am towards women. I love it when we cuddle and hold hands and caress each other. He knows I'm a lesbian, but I haven't told him the deep level of discomfort this is causing me, and he doesn't notice.

I love him so much I'd marry him and give him kids (an idea that would be abhorrent with any other male). I'd say sex is a satisfying affair with him at an emotional level, and I enjoy giving him pleasure, but it's not sexually fulfilling for me and I kind of dislike it when /he/ gives me attention.

Eventually, you will look for something else somewhere, and it won't be a man.

By the way, I am married to lesbian, many would think would be hardcore lesbian.

I was just wondering if any lesbians out there have been in her shoes, and, if you could, please explain to me why she needs time to herself? I would be comfortable about her having sex with women. I think my friend might be coming to a realization that she might be bi-sexual.

She seems to be having a hard time dealing with this.

When her sex drive disappeared months ago she was afraid I would leave her but we worked through it. She was very special to me and continues to inspire me. I don't care how difficult it was you don't just ditch someone that did nothing wrong. So I started treating her about the same way I would treat a hetro girlfriend. Since then, we have taken breaks from each other, but then seeing each other again, till she was uncomfortable again, rinse and repeat. Similar to a previous post, I have also thought about a future with her in a poly-amourous relationship.

I wasn't ready to survive without her and our relationship seemed to go much deeper than the "couple thing" she no longer desires with men. My self esteem and self efficacy have gone up since I stopped dating a lesbian. I know this is a normal part of breakups but I never considered us normal. I just want know why the person that smiled every time I looked at her won't talk to me. We are very good friends, and could have a primary relationship.

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