Dating 2 men at once
That's what makes the situation attractive: They're great in opposite (yet equal) ways. You're playing the perfect girlfriend in two different relationships. You like both men so much, but you can't bring yourself to pick just one. At the same time, you're so incredibly happy to have two people who make you feel so good.
Your shame is palpable, but your indecision will always outweigh any guilt.
There are two basic things you have to understand about dating a) people love to talk b) everyone seems to know everyone. I’m not saying that’s right or wrong, I’m just saying that’s how it is.
So if you don’t want your men finding out about each other, try not to broadcast it to the whole world. Inviting them both upstairs is a recipe for Jeremy Kyle type disaster.
Here you are, time flying by, and you haven't been able to choose.
I'll come to those crossroads and everything will make sense.”Yet, without even realizing it, you may suddenly find yourself getting serious about both guys.
You keep up the charade as long as you possibly can, hoping that the world will decide for you. You don't want to choose wrong and end up with nothing.
You feel like Mandy Moore's character in “Because I Said So": hopelessly pulled between the gorgeous musician and the stable, sexy millionaire. What if you THINK one of the guys is right for you -- but he's really not? Your indecision is a cruel trick played by the universe.
You know you should, but you just can't bring yourself to commit. When two guys are vying for your love, you may feel like the ultimate catch, but you'll end up the ultimate loser.
Being in a relationship with one man is statistically proven to make you put on weight, so image the damage to your waist line that two of them will cause.
Then, before you know it, you’ll go from having two men, to none.